It can be kind of tough to gauge somebody's true intentions on Tinder.The app works best as a tool for hooking up -- nothing fizzles the libido like a long, drawn-out message exchange -- but I've known more than one person to meet their long-term companion on it, too. If you know what you looking for, that's a good start, too.If that's what you're looking for, too, it might be titillating for you.
Plus, you haven't even met this person, so you don't even know if If you've asked all of the above, and you're still not totally clear on what he's looking for, then congratulations, you've found someone so confusing and evasive, they are probably a mystery even to themselves. So lighten up, make a joke, and figure out your dinner plans.
My magic 8 ball says he's probably looking for sex.
This question can obviously be taken more than one way.
If you're a bit shy about coming out and asking someone their true intentions, this question is a way for you to get a feel for the waters by dipping your pinky toe in first.
If someone is looking to hookup once, he will more than likely balk at the word "date." Those with commitment-phobia seem to prefer the term "hang out" to "date," and if he doesn't plan on calling after, he will probably correct you.