It is a problem once you realize that you have fewer things to say to each other, and more time to think about how awkward the silences are. Every time I receive news, whether good or bad, my best friend is one of the first people I share the news with.A sign that your best friend is no longer your BFF is when you procrastinate telling them what’s going on in your life.However, best friends are supposed to transcend boundaries between these groups of friends, and always take priority.Once both of you start spending more time with others and less time together, you know that you’re drifting apart.No one’s asking you to celebrate the day you guys decided to become BFFs.I’m talking about major events like birthdays and holidays.
At that point, though, you just need to start dating. If you've ended serious relationships because you refused to give up your best friend in any capacity, that says a lot. They always know how to cheer you up when you're down.When you’re always trying to one up each other or prove that you’re better, that’s where the problem lies. Once you take pleasure in watching your friend fail, you can chalk it up as a red flag in your friendship.BFFs are supposed to be each other’s cheerleaders, regardless of the situation. The first thing you should do is to work on the friendship.If you don’t chat anymore, it’s not because you can’t, but rather, because you don’t want to. All it takes is a simple phone call to catch up with your best friend.